A Leap in Attachment

As of two weeks ago, M isn't afraid to be left alone. I mean, not alone at home with no adult--I mean left to play while I, say, visit the bathroom. He and K have even wanted to remain playing outside while Peter or I duck into the house for a minute.

I am relieved by this change. I hadn't been terribly worried; after all, I've been his third mom for only 2 years and 4 months. But I had been starting to wonder when he'd start to "get it" that, when Peter or I go away, we come back. He continues to discuss his feelings with us, confide his dreams and wishes, give us presents, seek us out for hugs and kisses; so we know that, whatever the change is, it's good.

What prompted this change? We're not exactly sure. We did stay in a hotel overnight a few weekends ago, with the two kids in their own room adjoining ours. Peter got up to comfort M during the night when he was scared. Did that matter? The following night, Peter and both kids stayed over at Peter's parents' house with Peter's brothers and their kids. Again, did that matter? We don't know, but it appears that something good has happened to M's confidence in us.